Grief Changes You… But You Get to Choose How!
When someone you love passes away it’s not just your heart that breaks — the life you knew shatters, too.
The places you once found comfort feel unfamiliar.
The future you once imagined disappears in an instant. Grief doesn’t just touch one part of you… it rewires you. It changes how you think, how you feel, and how you see the world.
But here’s what so many people don’t tell you: healing isn’t about “getting over” your grief. It’s not about erasing the love or the memories. It’s about healing yourself — the you who now lives in this changed world.
When you choose to heal yourself, you rebuild from the inside out. You learn to carry your love forward without being crushed by the pain. You begin to see glimmers of joy again. And you start to imagine — and then create — a life that feels whole, meaningful, and deeply yours.
Because while grief will change you… you have the power to choose how it shapes the rest of your life.
Together we create a brand new life, so you become the best version of yourself with confidence, purpose and JOY.
Transform From the Inside
The beautiful butterfly you see was once a caterpillar living on the ground amongst the foliage of plants, it just existed there to eat and eat, then one day it starts to spin silk around itself and places itself in a cocoon where it starts to go through the metamorphosis of transformation, and when it has fully developed, it finds its way out of that space and its life becomes different. It has a different imprint, a different function, and different a purpose.
YOU are that butterfly! During our 8 week FLOW Grief Release Program, you will discover who you are, your purpose, and emerge from your cocoon of grief spread your wings, and fly like a butterfly.
FLOW is the Gateway to Rapid Grief Release
FLOW Grief Release is your pathway to true transformation after loss.
It’s empowerment, deep emotional release, unwavering support, and proven results — all at your fingertips.
Through our unique FLOW Method, you’ll discover how to move from heartbreak to hope in weeks, not years.
Unlike traditional talk therapy, which often keeps you focused on the past, FLOW works at the deepest level to help you:
Release the weight of grief
Rebuild your inner strength
Reimagine a future you’re excited to live
This is grief healing from the inside out — content, tools, and guidance that reignite your hunger for life and inspire the extraordinary in you. You’ve carried the pain long enough. Now it’s time to experience the freedom, clarity, and joy you deserve.
FLOW Grief Release is an 8-week Interactive Program
FLOW is an 8-week, interactive online program created using our unique FLOW Grief Release Method (Feel, Let Go, Overcome, Whole) combined with Grief Neuro Repatterning™ (GNR) — a powerful process that works with both your conscious mind and subconscious programming to break the brain’s automatic “grief loops” and replace them with patterns of peace, clarity, and optimism.
Over our time together, we gently uncover what’s truly keeping you from moving forward — the hidden beliefs, memories, and emotional triggers that keep you cycling between guilt, anger, and sadness.
We explore why your emotions sometimes swing from depression, overwhelm, and grief to moments of happiness, peace, and laughter… only to fall back into pain again.
Through the FLOW Method and GNR, you will re-discover your true self, reconnect with self-love, and rebuild a deep sense of confidence and self-worth. You’ll step into a reimagined future — one filled with purpose, possibility, and genuine hope — no longer defined by your loss, but inspired by the life you’re creating.
Hi, I'm Debbie Wood
Transformed By Grief: Introducing Debbie, Your Personal FLOW Grief Release Practitioner
Five years ago, my world was shattered when my 17-year-old daughter, Naomi, passed away. Grief brought me to my knees and left me questioning who I was and how I could possibly go on.
For a long time, I believed I had to stay in survival mode—smiling on the outside while carrying unbearable pain inside.
But over time, I discovered that grief wasn’t here to end my story—it was here to transform it.
I began to see that the patterns and beliefs keeping me stuck weren’t the grief itself, but the stories I told myself about loss, love, and who I was allowed to be. As I released those layers, I started to feel a freedom and joy I never imagined possible.
Today, I feel more like myself than ever before—rooted, alive, and open to life’s beauty. My journey has taught me that it is possible to honor deep loss while also choosing to rise, laugh again, and create a future that feels aligned and abundant.
This is the path I now share with others: a way forward that embraces both love and joy, even after loss.
Empower Yourself: Embrace Personal Development for a Life of Joy, Abundance and Fulfillment!
About the FLOW Grief Release Method & GNR
Created by Denise Dielwart
The FLOW Grief Release Method and GNR (Grief Neuro Repatterning) were created by Denise Dielwart, after the sudden and heartbreaking loss of her husband, Maarten. In the aftermath of his passing, Denise was plunged into an intense experience of grief that touched every part of her being — emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Conventional approaches to grief provided little relief. What Denise discovered through her own healing was that grief isn’t something to “get over,” but something we must move through. It was from this deeply personal journey that the FLOW Grief Release Method and GNR were born — unique, gentle, and powerful processes designed to support individuals in moving through grief and emotional trauma.
FLOW stands for:
Feel – Let Go – Overcome – become Whole
This method acknowledges that we cannot heal what we don’t allow ourselves to feel. Through FLOW, clients are guided to safely connect with their emotions, gently let go of stored pain and trauma, overcome the weight of loss, and begin to feel whole once again able to welcome their new future.
As Denise continued to explore the deeper impacts of grief and trauma, she saw how profoundly these experiences affect the nervous system. This led to the development of GNR – Grief Neuro Repatterning. GNR works in harmony with the FLOW Method to support healing by calming and rebalancing the nervous system, where trauma is often stored.
Both FLOW and GNR have become foundational tools for practitioners around the world who are passionate about trauma-informed, heart-centered healing.
As one of these practitioners, I am honored to offer these methods to help guide you through your own healing journey — safely, gently, and at your own pace.
Because grief doesn’t just heal with time.
You heal — with the right support.